Sentimental Gold for Dad

The wrong headed belief that all men are logical in their decision making and are thus above such sentimental gifts — as shown on the left — is so ridiculous as to be left unsaid. But say it we must, because of this persistent societal conceit. About 60% of men are clocked in as logical decision makers, but the other 40% — against all cultural pressures — make decisions using their values and subjective criteria, coming off as softies in the process.

Also, frankly, regardless of that decision making, as men age, they all become somewhat sentimental as their natural testosterone wanes. So chances are, especially if dad is over 50, this shadow box memory gift is going to be a hit for all types. Still, the ultimate sentimental softie — the Organic (NF) — will love it most of all.

But they are not alone. Classic Freedoms (SFJs), with their love of tradition and family heritage would be delighted with this gift, as well as their logic loving Classic Structure (STJ) brothers. Why? Because there’s nothing better than a home-made gift with special meaning for thrift and value, all of which Classics (SJ), and frankly even Funs (SP) hold dear. The only type I might give pause is Smarts (NT), but even these logic leaders will appreciate a gift of this nature. Just make sure it has some clever extra special meaning. Maybe a way to connect your relationship with him to some part of his intellectual life.